# Why You Unknowingly Resist Love, Joy, and Fulfillment Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654/why-you-unknowingly-resist-love-joy-and-fulfillment Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654/why-you-unknowingly-resist-love-joy-and-fulfillment.md Podcast: [The Heart of Entrepreneurship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654) Published: 2025-02-11T23:10:01+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/10af6818 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/10af6818/2672a83b.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654/episodes/why-you-unknowingly-resist-love-joy-and-fulfillment Duration seconds: 2982 ## Resource Most people think they struggle with fear or failure. But the truth is, we’re often more afraid of love, joy, and being fully seen. In this episode, Dave Kashen, Jesse Pujji, and Andrew Warner uncover the hidden ways we resist appreciation, connection, and fulfillment—without even realizing it. They break down why receiving acknowledgment can feel so uncomfortable, especially for high achievers, and how this subconscious resistance affects success, relationships, and self-worth. Jesse shares a powerful story about a leadership retreat that started as an awkward exercise and transformed into one of the most emotional, game-changing experiences of his life. Dave explains why we often block love and joy, even when we deeply crave them, and recounts the personal breakthrough that allowed him to finally feel his father’s love. Andrew wrestles with his own discomfort around appreciation and recognition, uncovering the deep-seated beliefs that hold so many people back from embracing their own value. They also explore how shifting from a mindset of entitlement to appreciation can create more ease, flow, and unexpected success—without forcing it. If you’ve ever downplayed your wins, brushed off praise, or struggled to accept love, this conversation will make you rethink how you show up in the world. ____________________________________________ Inner Game of Entrepreneurship Newsletter: https://newsletter.davekashen.com/ Bootstrapped Giants Newsletter: https://bootstrappedgiants.com/ Inner Game community and coaching: https://newsletter.davekashen.com/inner-game-community ____________________________________________ Show Notes: 00:00 - Jesse’s secret story revealed 01:04 - The exercise that changed everything 03:05 - Why we resist acknowledgment 06:33 - The fear of love & jo… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654/episodes/why-you-unknowingly-resist-love-joy-and-fulfillment/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-heart-of-entrepreneurship-7083654/why-you-unknowingly-resist-love-joy-and-fulfillment.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.