# We Loved Each Other… but We Weren’t Telling the Truth

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Podcast: [The Grounded Union Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500)
Published: 2026-01-30T14:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s3/8
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## Resource

In this episode of The Grounded Union Podcast , we dive deep into the messy, real, and sometimes painful truth behind connection, honesty, and intimacy in marriage. Brandon and Caitlyn sit down with Robert and Bri, a couple grappling with betrayal, disconnection, and the challenge of rebuilding trust while staying present. They explore how distractions, shame, and unmet needs can quietly erode love, and what it takes to bring curiosity, humor, and joy back into everyday life. Listeners hear raw reflections on navigating shame, reclaiming presence, and defining the “best version” of themselves and their marriages. With actionable guidance on aligning actions with values, embracing emotions rather than avoiding them, and reigniting spark and playfulness, this episode is a masterclass in transparent communication and intentional intimacy. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here Timestamps & Key Moments: 00:00:21 – Podcast Intro: Brandon and Caitlyn welcome Robert and Bri, framing the episode around love, truth, and disconnection. 00:02:30 – Discovering the Addiction: Bri reveals discovering Robert’s porn addiction four months postpartum and the emotional impact of repeated relapses, including a brief affair and inappropriate photos. 00:06:10 – Separation & Rebuilding Trust: Bri and Robert describe their recent one-week separ…

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