# How to Protect Your Kids From Your Marriage Crisis

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Podcast: [The Grounded Union Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-grounded-union-podcast-7220500)
Published: 2026-07-10T13:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://groundedunionpodcast.transistor.fm/s4/7
Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/59b88475/9117595f.mp3
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## Resource

This week on the Grounded Union Podcast , Brandon and Caitlyn speak on one of the most requested topics from their community: what do we tell the kids? They challenge every excuse for waiting to heal, issue a clear warning against the enmeshment trap (your kids are not your counselor or your comfort), and give practical guidance on age-appropriate conversations from toddlers to adult children. The episode closes with the family rhythms Brandon and Caitlyn still live by today: no screens, outside as much as possible, nightly family walks, and gathering around a fire — because protecting your kids from a marriage crisis starts with bringing your whole family back to life. Our 2026 Grounded Union 2-Day Workshop: 📍San Diego, CA — In-person & virtual 📅 August 14th & 15th, 2026 Workshop for Couples: Tap here to grab your ticket 🎟️ Looking for immediate support in your marriage? The Marriage Crisis Roadmap: Download the free guide here! Grounded Union Couples App: Tap here to apply Save Your Marriage Webinar: Tap here to get lifetime access Follow us on social: @brandontalksmarriage , @caitlyn_doerksen & @groundedunion YouTube Show available here What we discussed: 00:00:00 – Welcome & Intro: Brandon introduces the episode and opens with a key principle — you don't earn back your family's respect by asking for it; you earn it by changing. 00:02:26 – No Convenient Time to Heal: Caitlyn shares why you can’t wait for the perfect season and how healing happens in the middle of real life. 00:05:56 – Your Kids Are Not the Problem: Brandon's story of scrolling social media from 10 PM to midnight while waiting for the baby to wake — and why blaming your circumstances keeps you stuck. 00:07:47 – The Enmeshment Warning: Brandon explains why turning to your children for…

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