# Best of Bristol: 'To Be or Not to Be' with Actor, Facilitator, Singer & Coach Neil Bett on the 'Art of Being Present', with Pastries, Birds of Prey & Being One Sixth of an a Capella Sextet! Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243/best-of-bristol-to-be-or-not-to-be-with-actor-facilitator-singer-coach-neil-bett-on-the-art-of-being-present-with-pastries-birds-of-prey-being-one-sixth-of-an-a-capella-sextet Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243/best-of-bristol-to-be-or-not-to-be-with-actor-facilitator-singer-coach-neil-bett-on-the-art-of-being-present-with-pastries-birds-of-prey-being-one-sixth-of-an-a-capella-sextet.md Podcast: [The Good Listening To Show](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243) Published: 2026-06-17T01:59:06+00:00 Episode link: https://www.brushwoodmedianetwork.com Audio file: https://downloads.pod.co/2a2a659b-86ce-4b3d-af32-c6a031b51126/d39bf506-1049-43ec-9954-d12dbb25a8d7.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243/episodes/best-of-bristol-to-be-or-not-to-be-with-actor-facilitator-singer-coach-neil-bett-on-the-art-of-being-present-with-pastries-birds-of-prey-being-one-sixth-of-an-a-capella-sextet Duration seconds: 2806 ## Resource Ever wondered what makes performers tick? Neil Bett – actor, facilitator, coach, and one-sixth of an acapella sextet – takes us on a fascinating journey through the moments that shaped his creative path. Recorded in our brand new Future Leap Studios in Bristol, this conversation between old friends crackles with authenticity. Neil and host Chris Grimes trained together at Bristol Old Vic Theatre School, giving them a shared language around performance and presence that elevates their exchange beyond mere reminiscence. The heart of the episode centers on Neil's transformative moment at age 12 when, during a school improvisation, he portrayed a punk rocker stuck in a lift. The uproarious laughter that followed revealed something profound – the power to affect others through performance. This revelation would shape his entire career and approach to creative expression. Neil's candor is refreshing as he shares wisdom gleaned from mentors like acting teacher Rudy Shelly, who bluntly told the cold-ridden student: "I don't give a shit how you feel, and neither does the audience." This lesson in professionalism remains a cornerstone of Neil's philosophy. Equally valuable was a colleague's advice to pursue opportunities that provide an "emotional kick" rather than just career advancement – a phrase that has guided Neil's decisions ever since. Beyond performance insights, we discover delightful surprises: Neil's obsession with marmalade-making (continuing his mother's tradition), his fascination with birds of prey, and how the smell of pastries never fails to stop him in his tracks. His reflections on Shakespeare's "to thine own self be true" reveal a man who has found authenticity through both creative expression and family life. The episode concludes with Neil's acapella rendi… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243/episodes/best-of-bristol-to-be-or-not-to-be-with-actor-facilitator-singer-coach-neil-bett-on-the-art-of-being-present-with-pastries-birds-of-prey-being-one-sixth-of-an-a-capella-sextet/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-good-listening-to-show-7699243/best-of-bristol-to-be-or-not-to-be-with-actor-facilitator-singer-coach-neil-bett-on-the-art-of-being-present-with-pastries-birds-of-prey-being-one-sixth-of-an-a-capella-sextet.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.