# Episode 169 - What I’m Working On Right Now: What Will They Think of Me? Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423/episode-169-what-i-m-working-on-right-now-what-will-they-think-of-me Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423/episode-169-what-i-m-working-on-right-now-what-will-they-think-of-me.md Podcast: [The Ex-Good Girl Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423) Published: 2026-07-08T12:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.sarafisk.coach/ Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/780ff55e-a302-46af-9991-42133cba95a7.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423/episodes/episode-169-what-i-m-working-on-right-now-what-will-they-think-of-me Duration seconds: 1170 ## Resource We all assume other people have it more figured out than we do. But beneath so many of our struggles is the same familiar good girl question: How am I going to be perceived? In this episode, I'm sharing three places where that question is still showing up in my own life: aging, body image, and using my voice. It’s easy to look at someone else’s life and think they have it all figured out, especially in the self-help world. That's why I think it matters that you know I'm on the same path, working through many of the same struggles I teach about. Today, you’ll hear how I’m working through it just like you. Here’s what I cover: How the beauty industry profits from teaching women that the way they look is a problem to solve What coaching women through weight loss taught me about body image and good girl conditioning The difference between what you logically know and the programming that still shapes your self-perception Why women speaking up without worrying about how they're perceived has the power to change the world How learning to love both your logical self and your conditioned "good girl" creates more peace Reserve your seat for my next workshop: sarafisk.coach/sayitwithclarity Find Sara here: sarafisk.coach pages.sarafisk.coach/difficultconversations instagram.com/sarafiskcoach facebook.com/SaraFiskCoaching tiktok.com/@sarafiskcoach youtube.com/@sarafiskcoaching1333 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423/episodes/episode-169-what-i-m-working-on-right-now-what-will-they-think-of-me/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-ex-good-girl-podcast-6037423/episode-169-what-i-m-working-on-right-now-what-will-they-think-of-me.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.