# #94 The Kink Shrink: Consent, Power & Erotic Accountability with Debs

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Podcast: [The Erotic Realm](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672)
Published: 2026-04-28T14:30:00+00:00
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## Resource

What happens when consent is treated as more than a checklist and power becomes an ethical practice? In this episode I’m joined by Debs (The Kink Shrink) — therapist, educator and long-time kink practitioner to explore the psychology of consent, accountability and mature power exchange. We explore: Consent versus embodied accountability. BDSM, therapy and clinician bias. Free will, law and ethical power exchange. Compassion, boundaries and mature submission. What kink culture gets right — and where it struggles. VOTE for The Erotic Realm to win best podcast  here . Thanks for voting! Research article:  Investigating Bias in Psychotherapy with BDSM Clients. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating?  ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm  now has it’s own  merchandise!  If you love the show and want to support it check it out  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info .

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