# #87 No Children, No Shame: Sterilisation, Sex Work & Erotic Freedom with Katija Cortez Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672/87-no-children-no-shame-sterilisation-sex-work-erotic-freedom-with-katija-cortez Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672/87-no-children-no-shame-sterilisation-sex-work-erotic-freedom-with-katija-cortez.md Podcast: [The Erotic Realm](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672) Published: 2026-04-03T13:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.art19.com/episodes/fc117169-8ec1-4bf2-bbd4-3727d58eed5c.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Audio file: https://rss.art19.com/episodes/fc117169-8ec1-4bf2-bbd4-3727d58eed5c.mp3?rss_browser=BAhJIg90cmFuc2NyaWJyBjoGRVQ%3D--952c5701c84ad333c69d5faa668f8177091704f0 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-erotic-realm-7139672/episodes/87-no-children-no-shame-sterilisation-sex-work-erotic-freedom-with-katija-cortez Duration seconds: 3303 ## Resource What happens when a woman chooses her body, her career, and her desire — outside of expectation? In this episode I’m joined by Katija Cortez — a submissive, content creator, and professional girlfriend — to explore female autonomy, sterilisation, and the psychology of erotic agency. We explore: Sterilisation and voluntary childlessness. Stigma, autonomy, and cultural expectations. Sex work, desire, and emotional connection. The paradox of being both sovereign and submissive. How choice reshapes erotic identity. Research article: Stigma Management Among the Voluntarily Childless. Love Erotica?  Don't forget to go to  callmephoenix.com  and use the promo code  IOBEYEMMA  for  $5 off any audio! use as many times as you like. Interested in Kinky Speed Dating?  ⁠⁠⁠Register Here.⁠⁠⁠ The Erotic Realm  now has it’s own  merchandise!  If you love the show and want to support it check it out  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠here.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Visit  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠psychologyofdesire.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠  to apply to be on the podcast. I'd love to chat to you. Thanks for listening! Stay perverted, Emma See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info . ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-erotic-realm-7139672/episodes/87-no-children-no-shame-sterilisation-sex-work-erotic-freedom-with-katija-cortez/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-erotic-realm-7139672/87-no-children-no-shame-sterilisation-sex-work-erotic-freedom-with-katija-cortez.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.