# Blaming Your Husband For Your Sex Life Is Misguided And In Many Cases, Anti-Feminist

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Podcast: [The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dr-psych-mom-show-with-clinical-psychologist-dr-samantha-rodman-whiten-4776497)
Published: 2026-04-29T11:10:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/drpsychmomshow/episodes/Blaming-Your-Husband-For-Your-Sex-Life-Is-Misguided-And-In-Many-Cases--Anti-Feminist-e3hvaaa
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## Resource

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