# 🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths

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Podcast: [The Dirty Secrets Podcast with Kate Shelor](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dirty-secrets-podcast-with-kate-shelor-7085792)
Published: 2026-06-13T01:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/the-dirty-secrets-podcast/episodes/Ep-050--Amanda-the-Kink-Consultant--DomSub-Truths--Male-Submission--Kink-Myths-e3kmgl1
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Duration seconds: 4098

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🎙️ Ep 050 – Amanda the Kink Consultant – Dom/Sub Truths, Male Submission & Kink Myths Dirty Secrets Ep 050 So… what if your partner is kinky and you’re not? Or worse—you are kinky and have no idea how to say it out loud? 😏 Amanda the Kink Consultant is breaking it ALL down. We talk about how to actually start that conversation (hint: it’s not “I want to be spanked”), why male submission is way more common than people think, and what dominance really looks like beyond whips and chains. We also get into power dynamics, the psychology behind kink, and why consent—not intensity—is what separates sexy from scary. And yes… we go there with hypnotherapy, punishment fantasies, and the real truth about 50 Shades. This one’s eye-opening, smart, and just the right amount of spicy. Come play. @DirtySecretsPodcast @KateShelor @the_kinkconsultant

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