# 39. Blame is keeping you stuck

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Podcast: [The Dialog](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dialog-7546821)
Published: 2026-07-07T00:18:53+00:00
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## Resource

It's easy to blame what happened to you. It's much harder to ask what needs to change in you. In this episode, Josh and Nick explore how blame can quietly become one of the biggest obstacles to personal growth. After Josh receives unexpected feedback from his literary agent to shelve his first book, the conversation becomes much bigger than publishing. Together, they wrestle with what it means to receive criticism with humility, take ownership instead of making excuses, and communicate truth in a way that people can actually receive. From leadership and influence to faith and communication, Josh and Nick discuss why being right isn't always enough, how feedback reveals our blind spots, and why real growth begins when we stop looking for someone else to blame. If you've ever felt misunderstood, resisted correction, or found yourself stuck waiting for someone else to change, this episode will challenge you to embrace responsibility and discover the freedom that comes with it. Follow Josh Craft on Instagram by clicking here Follow Nick Surface on Instagram by clicking here Get more information and get in touch at joshuacraft.com

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