# The Scarcity Mindset Your Kids Might Be Learning From You Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814/the-scarcity-mindset-your-kids-might-be-learning-from-you Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814/the-scarcity-mindset-your-kids-might-be-learning-from-you.md Podcast: [The Dad Edge Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814) Published: 2026-06-10T00:00:00+00:00 Episode link: http://thedadedge.com/1489 Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/gooddadproject/6.9.26_-_Joe__Larry.mp3?dest-id=264727 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814/episodes/the-scarcity-mindset-your-kids-might-be-learning-from-you Duration seconds: 2337 ## Resource Gentlemen, we're two weeks out from Father's Day and this Q&A hit me right in the chest. We've got Joe the Legend joining me today, a father of five who brings that earned wisdom — the kind that only comes from years of being in the trenches, making mistakes, and choosing to grow through them. This conversation is real, raw, and exactly what this community is built on. We tackle two questions from the Alliance today. The first one is about a 12-year-old daughter who's been lying and stealing from family members — and how to guide her toward accountability while keeping the relationship open and safe. The second one is something almost every dad I know battles: losing patience by the end of the day when the tank is completely empty. Joe drops some of the most honest perspective you'll hear anywhere on why kids lie and steal, what birth order has to do with it, and how a scarcity mindset can drive behaviors you'd never expect. And then he shares something that personally rocked me — that impatience isn't a discipline problem. It's a selfishness problem. That one landed hard, and I'll explain why. This is the kind of show that reminds you why we're here. Not to be perfect dads. But to be intentional ones who keep showing up, keep learning, and keep choosing our kids — even when we've got nothing left in the tank. Timeline Summary [1:01] Larry introduces the show and a special four-part June offer for new Dad Edge Alliance members [1:38] What's included: signed copy of The Pursuit of Legendary Fatherhood , two courses, and a brand new PDF resource [3:39] Today's two topics: how to handle a child who is lying and stealing, and losing patience by end of day [4:00] Morgan (The Engineer) asks his question: his 12-year-old daughter is stealing from family members, often tie… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814/episodes/the-scarcity-mindset-your-kids-might-be-learning-from-you/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-dad-edge-podcast-522814/the-scarcity-mindset-your-kids-might-be-learning-from-you.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.