# Navigating faith, doubt, and parenting with grace with Kristin LaValley Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366/navigating-faith-doubt-and-parenting-with-grace-with-kristin-lavalley Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366/navigating-faith-doubt-and-parenting-with-grace-with-kristin-lavalley.md Podcast: [The Christian Parenting Podcast - Motherhood, Teaching kids about Jesus, Intentional parenting, Raising Christian kids](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366) Published: 2026-02-17T07:00:21+00:00 Episode link: https://redcircle.com/shows/a49e82ad-2c3a-4411-8939-eb5c1438f4fd/episodes/9194db30-4b6b-418a-8211-221e87985b7c Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/cohst.app/pdcst/7I2O4O/audio4.redcircle.com/episodes/9194db30-4b6b-418a-8211-221e87985b7c/stream.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366/episodes/navigating-faith-doubt-and-parenting-with-grace-with-kristin-lavalley Duration seconds: 1790 ## Resource Hey friends, Have you ever felt like you’re trying to pass on faith to your kids while quietly wrestling with your own? If so, this episode is for you. This week I’m joined by Kristin LaValley, writer, retreat host, and mom of five, who brings so much vulnerability and hope to the table. Kristin’s story is one many of us can relate to: growing up in the church, facing seasons of doubt and deconstruction, and learning how to build a gentler, deeper faith in the aftermath. Her wisdom is rooted in real experience, and she reminds us that asking questions doesn’t disqualify us, it invites us to know God more fully. Here are just a few of the things we unpack in today’s conversation: Why fear-based faith doesn’t last, and how to replace it with something more rooted in love The difference between shame and conviction, especially when helping our kids process emotions How to give our children spiritual agency without disengaging from their discipleship What it means to be a non-anxious presence in the midst of theological tension This one is tender, thoughtful, and full of grace. I hope it reminds you that God can hold both your faith and your questions. Kristin LaValley is a writer, retreat leader, and mother of five living in New England. She helps women process faith, trauma, and spiritual transformation with honesty and hope. Her latest book, Growing Up Saved , is a heartfelt reflection on evangelical culture, mental health, and rebuilding faith after deconstruction. (01:28) Transitioning from Homeschooling to Public School (02:41) The Power of Writing in Healing (05:19) Navigating Church Hurt and Parenting (10:36) Giving Kids Agency in Their Faith (20:38) Understanding Shame and Its Impact on Faith (28:38) Kristen's Book and Closing Thoughts Connect with Kristen Website… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366/episodes/navigating-faith-doubt-and-parenting-with-grace-with-kristin-lavalley/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-christian-parenting-podcast-motherhood-teaching-kids-about-jesus-intentional-parenting-raising-christian-kids-5984366/navigating-faith-doubt-and-parenting-with-grace-with-kristin-lavalley.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.