# Why Kids Whine (and What Actually Helps): A Conversation with Tania & Tammy, Episode #165

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Podcast: [The Child Psych Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-child-psych-podcast-5748916)
Published: 2026-01-14T12:00:00+00:00
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Duration seconds: 1346

## Resource

Whining can feel like nails on a chalkboard, especially when everyone is tired, stretched thin, or heading into (or out of) the holiday season. In this episode, Tania and Tammy unpack  why  kids whine, what’s happening beneath the behaviour, and how parents can respond in ways that reduce escalation and build connection. With their signature blend of warmth, humour, and clinical insight, they explore the real reasons kids slip into that grating tone, how stress and dysregulation fuel it, and why some children are more prone to whining than others. You’ll walk away with simple, compassionate strategies you can use right away to support emotional regulation, set clear boundaries, and guide your child back to calm. If whining has ever pushed your buttons (we’ve all been there!), this episode is for you. 👀 Something Big Is Coming for Parents… We’re launching  The Parent Coach  — and trust us, you’re going to want this in your back pocket. More details soon! The 2026 ICP Parenting Summit is coming! Join us March 16–19 for 35+ expert masterclasses and four interactive half-day workshops, featuring leading voices like Ross Greene, Laura Markham, Robert Melillo, Lawrence Cohen, Kim John Payne, and Jon Fogel. We’ll be diving into the topics parents need most: screens, discipline, anxiety, emotional regulation, neurodiversity, resilience, play, and more. The summit is completely free, and VIP packages include lifetime access, toolkits, certificates, and a digital copy of  The Parenting Handbook . Click here to save your seat! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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