# Setting Boundaries Without the Guilt: A Caregiver's Guide to Healing w/ Greg Fougere Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/setting-boundaries-without-the-guilt-a-caregiver-s-guide-to-healing-w-greg-fougere Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/setting-boundaries-without-the-guilt-a-caregiver-s-guide-to-healing-w-greg-fougere.md Podcast: [The Caregivers Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542) Published: 2026-05-08T19:07:29+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/39e28951 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/39e28951/90315fbf.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/episodes/setting-boundaries-without-the-guilt-a-caregiver-s-guide-to-healing-w-greg-fougere Duration seconds: 3572 ## Resource Caregiving is often framed through the lens of love and duty, but what happens when it becomes an old survival role? In this episode, Dr. Mark Ropeleski sits down with trauma-informed coach Greg Fougere to explore the deep-rooted family patterns, nervous system responses, and "self-abandonment" that often drive the default caregiver. We dive into the concept of parentification - where children become the emotional regulators for their parents - and how these childhood adaptations create a "survival mode" baseline that leads to extreme burnout in adulthood. If you’ve ever felt like you can’t keep going but you also can't stop, this conversation is for you. Click here to watch a video of this episode. Support Our Guest: ▶️Website: https://healoutloud.info ▶️Book a call: https://start.healoutloud.info/simple-book-call-appt ▶️TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@greg.healoutloud ▶️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/greg.healoutloud/ ▶️YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Greg.HealOutLoud ▶️Email: greg@healoutloud.info Connect With Us: ▶️ https://linktr.ee/thecaregiverspodcast Subscribe to The Caregivers Podcast on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts to never miss an episode. If you find these conversations helpful, please leave a review or share this episode with a fellow caregiver. 🔊 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fLSHPA7ZHbOpvrmcbfcd5?si=2a71d7c4e2e9427c 🔊 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast/id1842203665 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/episodes/setting-boundaries-without-the-guilt-a-caregiver-s-guide-to-healing-w-greg-fougere/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/setting-boundaries-without-the-guilt-a-caregiver-s-guide-to-healing-w-greg-fougere.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.