# "Promise Me You’ll Never Put Me in a Home”: When Families Face Long-Term Care w/ Janice Martin Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/promise-me-you-ll-never-put-me-in-a-home-when-families-face-long-term-care-w-janice-martin Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/promise-me-you-ll-never-put-me-in-a-home-when-families-face-long-term-care-w-janice-martin.md Podcast: [The Caregivers Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542) Published: 2026-05-19T16:26:14+00:00 Episode link: https://share.transistor.fm/s/4f9531c3 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/4f9531c3/8c4cd3c4.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/episodes/promise-me-you-ll-never-put-me-in-a-home-when-families-face-long-term-care-w-janice-martin Duration seconds: 3321 ## Resource In this episode of The Caregivers Podcast, host Dr. Mark Ropeleski sits down with senior living expert Janice Martin to unpack the hidden traps families fall into during this challenging stage. From navigating the guilt of a "never put me in a home" promise to managing intense sibling friction over inheritance versus care costs, this conversation brings to light the realities families are often afraid to say out loud. We also explore the practical side of senior housing: baseline costs, level-of-care price thresholds, resident rights regarding personal habits, intimacy in care facilities, and how to recognize the tipping point of true caregiver burnout. Click here to watch a video of this episode. Support Our Guest: ▶️ Book a call, buy a book, & more: https://stan.store/seniorliaison ▶️ The Complete Guide To Assisted Living: https://amzn.to/4u3Cnb4 ▶️ The Journey To Assisted Living: Expectation vs. Reality: https://amzn.to/3P1lCi1 Connect With Us: ▶️ https://linktr.ee/thecaregiverspodcast Subscribe to The Caregivers Podcast on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Podcasts to never miss an episode. If you find these conversations helpful, please leave a review or share this episode with a fellow caregiver. 🔊 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1fLSHPA7ZHbOpvrmcbfcd5?si=2a71d7c4e2e9427c 🔊 Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast/id1842203665 ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/episodes/promise-me-you-ll-never-put-me-in-a-home-when-families-face-long-term-care-w-janice-martin/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-caregivers-podcast-7504542/promise-me-you-ll-never-put-me-in-a-home-when-families-face-long-term-care-w-janice-martin.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.