# 128. "I'd rather be special than happy": Egos don't always lead us to happiness

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Podcast: [The Bright Method Podcast: Realistic Time Management and Productivity for Working Women & Working Moms](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-bright-method-podcast-realistic-time-management-and-productivity-for-working-women-working-moms-6376507)
Published: 2026-01-05T08:16:00+00:00
Episode link: https://kellynolan.com
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## Resource

A few years ago, I listened to this podcast episode from the Atlantic, How to Spend Time on What You Value, after a client sent it to me. You can listen here on Apple and here on Spotify . Let's talk about how our egos can lead us to pursue things that don't always align with what we say is most important to us and/or leads us away from what would actually make us happy. This is NOT to say we shouldn't have ambition or go after full careers. Not at all - I personally am very ambitious and support women going after high-powered careers. Just make sure it's what you truly want and fits with the life you want for yourself. Let's discuss! Additional links you might enjoy: 🌿 Free 5-Day Time Management Program Get five short, practical video lessons packed with realistic strategies to help you manage your personal and professional life with more clarity and calm. 📱 Follow me on Instagram Get bite-sized, real-life time management tips for working women—like reminders to set mail holds before travel, anonymous day-in-the-life calendars from other professional women, and behind-the-scenes looks at how I manage my own time. ✨ The full Bright Method™️ program If you're ready for a full time management system that's realistic, sustainable, and dare I say… fun , check out the Bright Method program. It's helped hundreds of professional women take back control of their time—and their peace of mind. Mentioned in this episode: Waitlist Signup Join the waitlist for the 10-week Bright Method program here: https://kellynolan.com/the-bright-method-time-management-course-with-kelly-nolan

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