# When Avoidants Do THIS, They Expect YOU To Break First

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Podcast: [The Art of Love With Lucia](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-art-of-love-with-lucia-1069642)
Published: 2026-03-04T18:31:02+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/lucia5183/episodes/When-Avoidants-Do-THIS--They-Expect-YOU-To-Break-First-e3fuhl5
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## Resource

When an avoidant goes silent, after they've ghosted or dumped you, sometimes they're waiting to see if you'll reach out first. In this video, ex back expert Lucia breaks down the subtle signs that an avoidant is watching from a distance and leaving the door slightly open - without ever saying it directly. Get coaching! Download Silenzio App: iPhone OR Android Read No Contact Secrets Book Say hi on Instagram #avoidantattachment #exback #nocontact

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