# "We Should Hang Out” Usually Goes Nowhere | Social Intelligence Briefing

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Podcast: [The Art of Charm](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-art-of-charm-1066744)
Published: 2026-03-19T19:29:00+00:00
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