# Episode 81 | The Psychology of The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives with Mellissa Perry Hill, LPC Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030/episode-81-the-psychology-of-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-with-mellissa-perry-hill-lpc Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030/episode-81-the-psychology-of-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-with-mellissa-perry-hill-lpc.md Podcast: [The Affirming Minds Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030) Published: 2026-06-23T07:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://shaina-siber-sanderowitz.mykajabi.com/podcasts/the-affirming-minds-podcast/episodes/2149219901 Audio file: https://app.kajabi.com/podcasts/medias/2149219901.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030/episodes/episode-81-the-psychology-of-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-with-mellissa-perry-hill-lpc Duration seconds: 3348 ## Resource What can a reality television show teach us about trauma, belonging, faith, and identity? In this Mental Health Edit episode, I’m joined by Mellissa Perry Hill, LPC, owner of Inner Compass Counseling & Consulting. Using The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives as a starting point, we explore religious trauma, high-control belief systems, gender roles, childhood trauma, mental health stigma, public shaming, and the challenges of healing while living in the public eye. In This Episode, We Discuss: Religious trauma and faith transitions High-control religious systems Shame, belonging, and community pressure Gender roles and patriarchy Childhood trauma and sexual abuse Mental health stigma Public accountability vs. public shaming Reality TV, social media, and culture Healing and reclaiming personal autonomy About Today's Guest Mellissa Perry Hill, MS, LPC, is the owner of Inner Compass Counseling & Consulting and specializes in religious trauma, spiritual abuse, and faith transitions. She works with individuals, couples, and families throughout Arizona and Utah. Connect with Mellissa Website: https://inner-compass-counseling.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mellissaperrytherapy/ Related Episode šŸŽ™ļø Episode 40: Healing After High-Control Religion and Religious Trauma For a deeper clinical discussion of religious trauma and faith transitions, be sure to check out Mellissa's previous CE-eligible appearance on The Affirming Minds Podcast Learn more about  Affirm Mental Health ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030/episodes/episode-81-the-psychology-of-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-with-mellissa-perry-hill-lpc/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-affirming-minds-podcast-7020030/episode-81-the-psychology-of-the-secret-lives-of-mormon-wives-with-mellissa-perry-hill-lpc.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.