# 513: BioEmotional Healing and Rewiring the Nervous System | Ashleigh DiLello Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/513-bioemotional-healing-and-rewiring-the-nervous-system-ashleigh-dilello Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/513-bioemotional-healing-and-rewiring-the-nervous-system-ashleigh-dilello.md Podcast: [The Adult Chair Podcast with Michelle Chalfant](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422) Published: 2026-06-04T06:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.theadultchair.com/podcasts Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/theadultchair/512__BioEmotional_Healing_and_Rewiring_the_Nervous_System___Ashleigh_DiLello_-_final_audio.mp3?dest-id=328057 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/episodes/513-bioemotional-healing-and-rewiring-the-nervous-system-ashleigh-dilello Duration seconds: 3248 ## Resource In this episode, I'm joined by Ashleigh DiLello, the founder and creator of BioEmotional Healing, for a powerful conversation about the brain, body, nervous system, chronic pain, trauma, and what it really takes to heal. Ashleigh shares her incredible story of becoming severely ill at just 13 years old, living between life and death for years, and eventually finding her way back to health, dance, and life. After building a successful career as a professional dancer, TV and Broadway performer, wife, and mother, she faced another life-altering health crisis after a failed hip surgery launched her body into chronic pain. We talk about how the nervous system stores our life experiences, why stress responses can show up as anxiety, perfectionism, chronic pain, autoimmune issues, gut issues, and other symptoms, and why regulating the nervous system is only part of the healing process. Key Takeaways The brain-body connection plays a major role in chronic pain, trauma, anxiety, and healing Long-term survival mode can become familiar to the nervous system, even after the original threat is gone Stress responses can show up in many ways, including pain, anxiety, perfectionism, depression, OCD behaviors, autoimmune symptoms, gut issues, and more Regulation helps calm the nervous system in the moment, but rewiring changes the deeper patterns that keep the stress response active Self-compassion is essential for nervous system rewiring because harsh self-criticism keeps the brain in a protective state Healing requires rebuilding trust with yourself, your body, and your ability to create a new identity We can honor what we have been through without allowing it to define the rest of our lives Resources from this Episode: Ashleigh DiLello's Website Free Brain-Body Blueprint Instagram:… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/episodes/513-bioemotional-healing-and-rewiring-the-nervous-system-ashleigh-dilello/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/513-bioemotional-healing-and-rewiring-the-nervous-system-ashleigh-dilello.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.