# 497: Michelle's Mom Joins the Podcast: A Surprise Mini-Session That Stops Negative Self-Talk Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/497-michelle-s-mom-joins-the-podcast-a-surprise-mini-session-that-stops-negative-self-talk Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/497-michelle-s-mom-joins-the-podcast-a-surprise-mini-session-that-stops-negative-self-talk.md Podcast: [The Adult Chair Podcast with Michelle Chalfant](https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422) Published: 2026-02-12T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.michellechalfant.com/podcast Audio file: https://pscrb.fm/rss/p/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.libsyn.com/secure/theadultchair/497_-_Final_Audio.mp3?dest-id=328057 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/episodes/497-michelle-s-mom-joins-the-podcast-a-surprise-mini-session-that-stops-negative-self-talk Duration seconds: 1264 ## Resource Today's episode is a true "sneak attack" mini-session I recorded on the spot because the shift happened so fast, I wanted you to hear it in real time. At first, I introduced my guest "JoJo" as a code name. Then we reveal the big moment: "JoJo" is actually my mom, Nancy Brindisi, and this is her first-ever time on the podcast! My mom is in that brave space of considering dating again after years, and the negative self-talk started spiraling. So I walked her through one simple practice that stopped the mental loop within minutes, and the calm that followed was unmistakable. In this episode, I share: Why negative self-talk often spikes when you're stepping into something new, especially dating again How I work with "parts" as energetic parts work (working with the energy of the judging, doubting part) A practical way to borrow supportive energy when you can't access your Adult Chair in the moment How this practice can come through as words, images, or a felt sense, and why your way is the right way MORE MICHELLE CHALFANT Website: https://www.michellechalfant.com Membership: The Adult Chair Collective https://www.michellechalfant.com/collective Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themichellechalfant Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheMichelleChalfant The Adult Chair® Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/theadultchair YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/Michellechalfant ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/episodes/497-michelle-s-mom-joins-the-podcast-a-surprise-mini-session-that-stops-negative-self-talk/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/the-adult-chair-podcast-with-michelle-chalfant-745422/497-michelle-s-mom-joins-the-podcast-a-surprise-mini-session-that-stops-negative-self-talk.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.