# Don't Ask, Don't Tell: Retired Maj. Gen. Tammy Smith served 25 years as a closeted gay officer – Tango Alpha Lima

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Podcast: [Tango Alpha Lima Podcast](https://stenobird.com/podcast/tango-alpha-lima-podcast-28912)
Published: 2026-03-31T10:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/tangoalphalima/episodes/Dont-Ask--Dont-Tell-Retired-Maj--Gen--Tammy-Smith-served-25-years-as-a-closeted-gay-officer--Tango-Alpha-Lima-e3h6e12
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Duration seconds: 3160

## Resource

Retired Army Maj. Gen. Tammy Smith shares the compelling story of her 35-year military career, including 25 years serving under Don't Ask Don't Tell (DADT) while hiding her identity. As one of the first openly gay generals in U.S. military history, Smith discusses the psychological toll of living authentically in secret, the 2011 repeal of DADT, military-to-civilian transition, and moral injury. Learn about LGBTQ+ veterans' unique challenges, discharge upgrade opportunities for those separated under discriminatory policies, and resources available through American Legion service officers. Smith provides insight intoLGBTQ+ military families, finding acceptance in veteran communities, and healing from service-related trauma. Critical listening for LGBTQ+ veterans, military families, those interested in military history and policy, discharge upgrade information, and veteran advocacy. SHOW NOTES Learn more about PFLAG Learn more about Modern Military Association of America

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