# Why Young People Stopped Believing the Rules Will Pay Off

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Podcast: [Tales of Abundance](https://stenobird.com/podcast/tales-of-abundance-7134682)
Published: 2026-06-10T10:14:00+00:00
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## Resource

Is delayed gratification still a winning strategy if the rules of the game feel broken? In this episode of Tales of Abundance, Randy Lorensen, Dr. John Oberg, and Anthony Marino take on one of the most charged questions in today’s economy: why so many younger people feel like they did what they were told—get good grades, go to college, work hard—and still ended up priced out, behind, or disillusioned. Starting with the famous Stanford marshmallow experiment and the lesser-known follow-up study on trust, the conversation explores a powerful idea: maybe the issue is not just patience or discipline. Maybe it is whether people believe the system will actually reward long-term thinking. From there, the guys go deep on the K-shaped economy, housing affordability, social media pressure, influencer culture, community breakdown, and the nonstop feeling that life is unfair. They debate whether this generation really has it harder, what previous generations got wrong, and why “just skip the $28 lunch” misses the bigger picture. Most importantly, they focus on what people can still control in a 2026 economy—thoughts, actions, skills, community, and the decision to build a life on purpose instead of defaulting into victimhood. If you’ve ever wondered whether delayed gratification still works, how to create abundance in a system that feels stacked against you, or what practical mindset shifts still matter when the world changes fast, this episode is for you. 00:01 – The marshmallow test, delayed gratification, and why trust changes the outcome 03:16 – What parents teach kids—without realizing it—about money and consumption 04:49 – Why life has always been hard, but feels different now 07:34 – What a K-shaped economy is and why it matters 09:04 – Housing affordability, home size, and…

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