# Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception.md Podcast: [Surviving BPD Relationship Breakups](https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371) Published: 2025-10-11T13:31:31+00:00 Episode link: https://www.spreaker.com/episode/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception--68099829 Audio file: https://dts.podtrac.com/redirect.mp3/api.spreaker.com/download/episode/68099829/borderline_love_a_looping_trap_of_deception.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/episodes/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception Duration seconds: 1796 ## Resource Borderline Love a Looping Trap of Deception Borderline Love is a looping trap of deception rooted in fantasy, betrayal, false hope, and trauma bonded dynamics of pseudo attachment and the Borderline idealization trap of deception (conscious or unconscious). People with BPD deceive boyfriends and girlfriends, husbands and wives, the favorite person, friends and family members as well as themselves. People with Borderline Personality do not know who they are. They do not know how to relate to you as separate from their own internal dysregulated and emotionally immature "lack of self". "Love and/or attachment" believed to be given by a person with BPD or received by a Codependent is an emotional deception and a trap. https://ajmahari.ca - Sessions - Contact - Blog https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts - A.J's Podcasts https://ajmahari.com - Online Store - Ebooks & more https://survivingbpdrelationshipbreakup.com - Podcast & Youtube Feed This podcast is ranked in the Top 100 Relationships Podcasts on feedspot.com at: 100 Best Relationship Podcasts You Must Follow in 2025 Million Podcasts has ranked this podcast in the top 60 Codependency Podcasts, the top 100 Narcissistic Abuse Podcasts and the top 100 in their Toxic Relationship Podcast lists. https://www.millionpodcasts.com/codependency-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/narcissistic-abuse-podcasts/ https://www.millionpodcasts.com/toxic-relationship-podcasts/ ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/episodes/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/surviving-bpd-relationship-breakups-1510371/borderline-love-a-looping-trap-of-deception.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.