# Five Common Self-Help Habits That Accidentally Keep Your Nervous System Sensitized and Stuck Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/stuck-not-broken-765818/five-common-self-help-habits-that-accidentally-keep-your-nervous-system-sensitized-and-stuck Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/stuck-not-broken-765818/five-common-self-help-habits-that-accidentally-keep-your-nervous-system-sensitized-and-stuck.md Podcast: [Stuck Not Broken](https://stenobird.com/podcast/stuck-not-broken-765818) Published: 2026-03-10T12:00:00+00:00 Episode link: http://www.stucknotbroken.com Audio file: https://episodes.captivate.fm/episode/a7166a68-02c8-4962-a75a-9c3ee6b7aa7a.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/stuck-not-broken-765818/episodes/five-common-self-help-habits-that-accidentally-keep-your-nervous-system-sensitized-and-stuck Duration seconds: 1305 ## Resource Is your self-help routine actually making things worse? The self-help industry has one answer for everything: do more. More habits, more discipline, more effort. But for a nervous system that's already overwhelmed — stuck in sympathetic flight/fight, freeze overdrive, or dorsal shutdown — more doing can mean more frustration, more overwhelm, and more defeat. In this episode, I break down 5 common self-help habits that may be working against you if you don't yet have the nervous system capacity for them. Capacity Builder Live (live meditation sessions) → https://www.stucknotbroken.com/c/calendar/?topics=182524 Unstucking Academy → https://www.stucknotbroken.com/unstuckingacademy Previous episode on trauma narrative → https://youtu.be/pvJNSJ8q1aM 🌸 Not sure which stuck state you're in? Recognize where you're at and join the free community here - https://www.stucknotbroken.com/stuck?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=stuck-page It helps you recognize your state. It never tells you what you are. No quiz, no verdict, no card. 🤩 Ready to go deeper? Explore resources at every price point here - https://www.stucknotbroken.com/how-i-can-help-you?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=how-i-can-help 🙂 Don't know the Polyvagal Theory? Catch up here - https://player.captivate.fm/collection/cce134e7-1550-4d33-8e56-738d344c63b0 This and other content produced by Justin Sunseri (“JustinLMFT”) (i.e; podcast, YouTube, Instagram, etc.) is not therapy, not intended to be therapy or be a replacement for therapy.  Nothing in this creates or indicates a therapeutic relationship.  Please consult with your therapist or seek for one in your area if you are experiencing mental health symptoms.  Nothing should be construed to be specific lif… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/stuck-not-broken-765818/episodes/five-common-self-help-habits-that-accidentally-keep-your-nervous-system-sensitized-and-stuck/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/stuck-not-broken-765818/five-common-self-help-habits-that-accidentally-keep-your-nervous-system-sensitized-and-stuck.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.