# 194. When You Feel Like You're Failing at Everything (Even When You're Not)

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Podcast: [Strong Is a Mindset](https://stenobird.com/podcast/strong-is-a-mindset-5572120)
Published: 2026-03-11T05:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://carriehollandmd.com/failing-at-everything/
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## Resource

Have you ever had the thought, I feel like I'm failing at everything ? That thought often shows up quietly. It might be when you're finishing work late at night, standing in the kitchen after a chaotic evening, or replaying moments from the day that didn't go the way you wanted. And even when nothing is actually falling apart, it can still feel like you're behind somewhere, at work, at home, with your health, or in your relationships. Listen in this week as I unpack why so many high-achieving women fall into this pattern. You'll learn why trying to be excellent in every role at the same time creates an impossible standard, how the math of time and energy makes that expectation unsustainable, and why the feeling of "failing at everything" is often a distortion rather than reality. I'll also share a simple way to interrupt that spiral so you can evaluate your day more clearly and focus your energy on what actually matters next. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://carriehollandmd.com/194 Follow me on Facebook and Instagram: https://www.facebook.com/carriehollandmd https://www.instagram.com/carriehollandmd/

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