# How Coffee Dates, Daily Texts & Weekend Requests Turn Her Off

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Podcast: [Stop Losing Women Podcast: Dating Advice for Men with Harry Wilmington](https://stenobird.com/podcast/stop-losing-women-podcast-dating-advice-for-men-with-harry-wilmington-241328)
Published: 2026-06-10T14:42:00+00:00
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