# Lessons We Learned The Hard Way | Advice Edition

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Podcast: [Spilling Wine](https://stenobird.com/podcast/spilling-wine-7080218)
Published: 2026-01-11T17:20:12+00:00
Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/kelly-boland/episodes/Lessons-We-Learned-The-Hard-Way--Advice-Edition-e3dfi03
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Kelly and Drew dives into the dating and friendship mistakes no one warns you about—until it’s too late. From ignoring red flags and overextending yourself to confusing potential with reality, we’re breaking down the hard truths that shaped how we love, trust, and set boundaries today.FOLLOW US:Instagram: @spillingwine.podcastTiktok: @spilling.wineKellyInstagram: @kellyislitTiktok: @kellyislittInsta- @goodvibesandrewTiktok- @goodvibesdrewX- @goodvibesandrewSHOP OUR MERCH BELOW🛍️: https://spillingwinepodcast.com/productsSend Us Your Crazy Storytimes To Be Featured!

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