# EP. 203 Breaking Free from Codependency: A Biblical Perspective on Burdens, Boundaries, and Trusting God W/Counseling & Soul Care Director Chris Minott Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/speak-the-truth-243909/ep-203-breaking-free-from-codependency-a-biblical-perspective-on-burdens-boundaries-and-trusting-god-w-counseling-soul-care-director-chris-minott Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/speak-the-truth-243909/ep-203-breaking-free-from-codependency-a-biblical-perspective-on-burdens-boundaries-and-trusting-god-w-counseling-soul-care-director-chris-minott.md Podcast: [Speak The Truth](https://stenobird.com/podcast/speak-the-truth-243909) Published: 2026-03-13T22:06:55+00:00 Episode link: https://speakthetruth.org/203 Audio file: https://media.transistor.fm/a1563d4a/1ad803f6.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/speak-the-truth-243909/episodes/ep-203-breaking-free-from-codependency-a-biblical-perspective-on-burdens-boundaries-and-trusting-god-w-counseling-soul-care-director-chris-minott Duration seconds: 1526 ## Resource In this episode of Speak the Truth, Michael interviews Chris Minott, Director of Soul Care and Biblical Counseling at Summit Church in Fort Myers, Florida, about codependency within ongoing discussions of trauma. Minott explains codependency’s cultural origin in the late 1970s around addiction-affected relationships and defines it as overly responsible, controlling, identity-seeking behavior that continues even when the addict recovers. She frames codependency biblically as relational idolatry and fear of man, drawing on Ed Welch’s When People Are Big and God Is Small, and describes manifestations such as people-pleasing, caretaking, rescuing, and helpless-victim patterns. Using Galatians 6:1–5, she distinguishes burden-bearing from carrying one’s own load, offers tools to clarify responsibility versus concern and entrusting concerns to God, emphasizes God’s attributes, and points to Jesus’ example (including Lazarus) for compassionate, truth-filled love. 00:00 Welcome and Topic Setup 00:49 Meet Chris Minott 03:37 What Codependency Means 04:44 Cultural Roots and Heart Issues 09:39 Common Codependency Patterns 14:03 Burden Bearing vs Enabling 16:16 Tools for Healthy Boundaries 23:07 Jesus as the Model 25:07 Final Thanks and Wrap Up Episode Mentions Counseling Codependency Handout - Chris Minott ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/speak-the-truth-243909/episodes/ep-203-breaking-free-from-codependency-a-biblical-perspective-on-burdens-boundaries-and-trusting-god-w-counseling-soul-care-director-chris-minott/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/speak-the-truth-243909/ep-203-breaking-free-from-codependency-a-biblical-perspective-on-burdens-boundaries-and-trusting-god-w-counseling-soul-care-director-chris-minott.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.