# Weaponized incompetence and other ADHD “crimes” (Reddit Reactions)

Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/weaponized-incompetence-and-other-adhd-crimes-reddit-reactions
Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/weaponized-incompetence-and-other-adhd-crimes-reddit-reactions.md
Podcast: [Sorry, I Missed This: The Everything Guide to ADHD and Relationships with Cate Osborn](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483)
Published: 2025-12-02T05:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://www.understood.org/en/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this
Audio file: https://mgln.ai/e/1245/afp-935247-injected.calisto.simplecastaudio.com/b69e7ae3-6261-4441-847d-84b122839136/episodes/4b82a37d-34a3-4144-b9e5-ec0f19ecbfc8/audio/128/default.mp3?aid=rss_feed&awCollectionId=b69e7ae3-6261-4441-847d-84b122839136&awEpisodeId=4b82a37d-34a3-4144-b9e5-ec0f19ecbfc8&feed=xF5Cl7lM
Processing state: not_requested
JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/episodes/weaponized-incompetence-and-other-adhd-crimes-reddit-reactions
Duration seconds: 1012

## Resource

We’re back with another spicy Reddit Reactions episode! This week, we dive into two wildly relatable ADHD relationship posts: one about a partner claiming “you lost your sparkle” (eye roll), and another spiraling over chores, shame, and new-job burnout. We unpack toxic dynamics, people-pleasing, clutter blindness, and why you’re not weaponizing incompetence.

## Actions

- request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/episodes/weaponized-incompetence-and-other-adhd-crimes-reddit-reactions/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode.
- read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/sorry-i-missed-this-the-everything-guide-to-adhd-and-relationships-with-cate-osborn-6934483/weaponized-incompetence-and-other-adhd-crimes-reddit-reactions.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource.

A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed.

## Transcript

Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.