# How to Make Better Friends & Cleaning Myths That Waste Your Time - SYSK Choice Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/something-you-should-know-52651/how-to-make-better-friends-cleaning-myths-that-waste-your-time-sysk-choice Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/something-you-should-know-52651/how-to-make-better-friends-cleaning-myths-that-waste-your-time-sysk-choice.md Podcast: [Something You Should Know](https://stenobird.com/podcast/something-you-should-know-52651) Published: 2026-05-23T07:03:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/495/pdrl.fm/60a606/pscrb.fm/rss/p/tracking.swap.fm/track/bwUd3PHC9DH3VTlBXDTt/traffic.megaphone.fm/SBP3671620799.mp3 Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/mgln.ai/e/495/pdrl.fm/60a606/pscrb.fm/rss/p/tracking.swap.fm/track/bwUd3PHC9DH3VTlBXDTt/traffic.megaphone.fm/SBP3671620799.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/something-you-should-know-52651/episodes/how-to-make-better-friends-cleaning-myths-that-waste-your-time-sysk-choice Duration seconds: 3003 ## Resource The sound of crickets on a warm summer night is instantly recognizable. But the tiny creatures making all that noise are far more fascinating than most people realize. Crickets have some remarkable abilities and behaviors that may change the way you think about them entirely. Source: Hugh Raffles author of Insectopedia (https://amzn.to/4bOcK51) People today have fewer close friendships than in the past, and loneliness is becoming increasingly common. Yet making and maintaining friendships may not be nearly as complicated as many people think. Anna Goldfarb, friendship journalist and author of Modern Friendship: How to Nurture Our Most Valued Connections (https://amzn.to/3K9Fqdb), explains why friendship often feels harder in adulthood, what gets in the way of meaningful connection, and the surprisingly simple things people can do to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships. Housecleaning sounds boring—until you realize a lot of what people believe about cleaning is outdated, ineffective, or just plain wrong. Some common cleaning habits waste time, waste money, and don’t even work particularly well. Melissa Pateras, whose wildly popular TikTok videos have attracted millions of viewers (https://www.tiktok.com/@melissadilkespateras?lang=en), joins me to share smarter, simpler ways to clean your home, do laundry, and tackle everyday messes more effectively. She is author of A Dirty Guide to a Clean Home: Housekeeping Hacks You Can’t Live Without (https://amzn.to/3VbJ0ts). Getting kids outside to play has all kinds of benefits—but one of the most important has to do with protecting their eyesight. Researchers are discovering a fascinating connection between outdoor time and children’s vision health. https://www.aao.org/eyenet/article/outdoor-activity-and-myopia-in-chil… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/something-you-should-know-52651/episodes/how-to-make-better-friends-cleaning-myths-that-waste-your-time-sysk-choice/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/something-you-should-know-52651/how-to-make-better-friends-cleaning-myths-that-waste-your-time-sysk-choice.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.