# You're Not Dating for Love You're Dating for Help | SFTA #69

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Podcast: [Something For That Ass](https://stenobird.com/podcast/something-for-that-ass-6575963)
Published: 2026-03-25T14:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://something-for-that-ass.captivate.fm
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## Resource

Episode 69 - It's desperation not love girl. Stop kidding yourself. You want his help and you don't need it. On this episode we recap our weekend, loving yourself too much to let things go, and falling in love being a character flaw. Enjoy ladies and thanks for watching 😘 Time Stamps: 00:00 Recapping the weekend together 10:00 Trying to put the fork down 13:00 Soda is an instant deal breaker 16:00 Sharing a meal with someone is a love language 19:00 Popping out a baby to secure a bag 22:00 Love yourself enough NOT to give into instant gratification 26:40 40+ and older without a kid or marriage is odd to say the least 29:00 Love is a choice 32:00 You're with him out of desperation (falling in love is a character flaw) 35:00 Too much respect to myself to overlook your faults 38:00 You can't even be in my face

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