# If You Have To Ask, It's Probably You #2 | SoberNotSober Ep.40 Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sobernotsoberpod-7591679/if-you-have-to-ask-it-s-probably-you-2-sobernotsober-ep-40 Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sobernotsoberpod-7591679/if-you-have-to-ask-it-s-probably-you-2-sobernotsober-ep-40.md Podcast: [SoberNotSoberPod](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sobernotsoberpod-7591679) Published: 2026-06-28T18:04:35+00:00 Episode link: https://rss.com/podcasts/sobernotsoberpod/2948789 Audio file: https://content.rss.com/episodes/356598/2948789/sobernotsoberpod/2026_06_28_18_04_55_69eae67a-67ce-4143-a69b-456ab3e08f77.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sobernotsoberpod-7591679/episodes/if-you-have-to-ask-it-s-probably-you-2-sobernotsober-ep-40 Duration seconds: 3472 ## Resource Happy Father's Day (to the fathers AND non-fathers out there)! Grant and Mekaylay are back with a pre-recorded ep while Mekaylay and Harley hit Yellowstone — because consistency is the brand even on vacation. Weekly episodes, no matter what. This week the duo dives into Reddit's "Am I the A**hole?" including a mom outing her gay son by casually asking if his boyfriend was coming toa family vacation, a mother-in-law making a dead mom joke to a very pregnant woman, and the legendary workplace saga of Jean, Jorts, and a coworker named Pam who thinks calling an orange cat dumb is a racial microaggression. (It's not, Pam.) Plus: live NBA Finals commentary with the Knicks vs. Spurs series, a wild Karen encounter at Ace Hardware, a deep dive into a True Crime podcast called "Feed Me, F* Me, Kill Me," Grant's ongoing $120/month water delivery addiction, the hunt for Grant's new apartment (washer/dryer in-unit is non-negotiable), and a shoutout to The Escape Podcast and Professor Sendy. Like, comment, subscribe — so we can eventually rent out Madison Square Garden and scream about whatever we want. 📧 SoberNotSober69@gmail.com 📲 @SoberNotSober everywhere else ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sobernotsoberpod-7591679/episodes/if-you-have-to-ask-it-s-probably-you-2-sobernotsober-ep-40/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/sobernotsoberpod-7591679/if-you-have-to-ask-it-s-probably-you-2-sobernotsober-ep-40.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.