# 13: You Can’t Heal What You Don’t Reveal: Nettie Jones on Healing Breast Cancer Trauma

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Podcast: [SIS: Sisters in Survivorship](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sis-sisters-in-survivorship-7520291)
Published: 2026-04-01T04:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

In this episode of SIS: Sisters In Survivorship, host Caleen Allen sits down with Nettie Jones, licensed psychotherapist, author of The Girlfriend’s Therapist Handbook, and truth-teller known as “the girlfriend’s therapist.” Nettie brings decades of experience helping women navigate the hidden trauma behind breast cancer. She unpacks what it means to be labeled “strong,” why so many women silently unravel under the weight of expectations, and how therapy, truth-telling, and faith can help survivors reclaim their identity. From intimacy challenges to body image, from sitting in silence to asking for help, Nettie offers practical tools and hard questions that empower women to love themselves fully, even in a body they may no longer recognize. She also dives into generational trauma, why mental health in the Black community is finally being normalized, and how every woman can own her truth to begin real healing. If you’re a survivor, caregiver, or advocate, this conversation serves as a reminder that healing begins with honesty, and sisterhood can carry you the rest of the way. ✨ Learn more: sistersnetworkinc.org 🔔 Subscribe for more episodes of SIS: Sisters In Survivorship KEY POINTS: - [7:15] Why your relationship with yourself is the most important one - [10:25] Why being told “be strong” can be harmful - [11:28] Grieving the life you thought you’d have after diagnosis - [14:53] Breaking stigma: Black women and therapy - [17:10] Hard questions every woman must ask herself - [19:36] Intimacy, body image, and relationship struggles post-diagnosis - [23:36] Learning to love yourself in a body that’s changed - [26:50] Younger Black women on embracing therapy and wellness - [28:28] The link between mental health and disease outcomes - [31:27] Owning your truth as the first…

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