# Why a Secure Man Won't Be Threatened By You Being a Man Hater | EP: 116

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Published: 2026-06-05T21:05:06+00:00
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Duration seconds: 1215

## Resource

If you've been holding back from fully doing this work, this episode is for you. Today Lauren is getting into why a capable, secure man is not going to be threatened by you being a self-proclaimed man hater, where male insecurity actually comes from and why it has nothing to do with you, and why the version of you that keeps shrinking herself is not landing the relationship you actually want. Because the goal was never really a relationship. The goal is you, fully yourself, living a life that feels whole whether or not anyone shows up to share it. And if someone does? He's lucky to be let in. Stay connected here Connect with me on Instagram Please email me here: Lauren@ohyeahcoaching.com Apply for coaching HERE Would You Date You? FREE guide

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