# #204: ADHD and Arguing: How to Stop the Cycle of Negotiation

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Podcast: [Shining With ADHD by The Childhood Collective](https://stenobird.com/podcast/shining-with-adhd-by-the-childhood-collective-6014030)
Published: 2025-10-13T10:00:00+00:00
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SHINING WITH ADHD  #204: ADHD and Arguing: How to Stop the Cycle of Negotiation The Childhood Collective 10/15/2025 SUMMARY If it feels like you and your child are stuck in the same argument on repeat, you’re not alone. Many of us find ourselves caught in the “conflict loop," or a cycle of arguing, negotiating, and giving in that leaves everyone frustrated. In this episode, we break down what the conflict loop looks like and how parents can avoid getting pulled into endless back-and-forths. With a few intentional shifts, you can reduce daily battles and create more peace at home.   MEET OUR TEAM We are Lori, Mallory, and Katie. Lori and Mallory are child psychologists, and Katie is a speech language pathologist. Most importantly, we are moms, just like you. After working with families over a combined total of 40 years, we saw a need to provide ongoing support and education to parents raising children with ADHD. LINKS + RESOURCES Episode #204 Transcript Creating Calm Course The Childhood Collective Instagram Have a question or want to share some thoughts? Shoot us an email at hello@thechildhoodcollective.com Mentioned in this episode: Creating Calm Course Creating Calm is a video-based course that will teach you simple, step-by-step strategies to help you parent a happy and independent child with ADHD (ages 4-12 years old). Whenever and wherever you have an internet connection. Use the code PODCAST for 10% off! Creating Calm Course Customizable ADHD Printables If you are an ADHD parent who is drowning in the chaos of forgotten lunches, lost homework, or bedtime battles…you are not alone. ADHD parents often find themselves giving hundreds of reminders that often result in yelling and frustration. Use the code PODCAST for 10% off! Instantly download these printa…

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