# Covert Narcissism and Self-Blame Why You Always Feel Like You’re the Problem

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Podcast: [Sh!t That Goes On In Our Heads](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sh-t-that-goes-on-in-our-heads-6035444)
Published: 2026-04-16T19:49:00+00:00
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## Resource

In this special podcast swap episode, we feature Renee Swanson of The Covert Narcissism Podcast as she unpacks the hidden dynamics of covert narcissism and why self-blame shows up in toxic relationships. If you’ve ever felt like everything is your fault after a normal conversation, this episode will help you understand why—and how to start reclaiming your sense of self.

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