# Nothing Pretty About Staying Quiet

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Podcast: [Sh*t I Just Quit My Job](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sh-t-i-just-quit-my-job-6620326)
Published: 2025-09-26T13:47:00+00:00
Episode link: https://sht-i-just-quit-my-job.captivate.fm/episode/nothing-pretty-about-staying-quiet
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## Resource

This week I’m back with my first repeat guest, author, speaker, and DEI advocate Hady Mendez. We’re talking about her new book Calladita No More . The title flips the saying “calladita te ves más bonita” (you’re prettier when you’re quiet), and so does our conversation. We get into Hady’s journey from leading DEI inside corporate America to carving her own entrepreneurial path, what it really means to advocate for yourself, and why ERGs and cultural identity matter more than ever. Hady also pulls back the curtain on writing and hybrid publishing her book, building a Latina-powered team to make it happen, and the refranes and stories that shaped her voice. With personal anecdotes, refranes, and heartfelt conversations, this episode offers a deep dive into rethinking identity and the power of speaking out. 00:00 Intro clip 01:03 Introducing Hady Menez 01:36 Hady's Book: Calladita No More 04:16 Understanding DEI and ERGs 06:23 Cultural Reflections and Personal Growth 10:50 Hady's Journey as an Author 16:40 Entrepreneurial Challenges and Lessons 17:32 The Evolution of DEI and ERGs 21:43 Navigating Business and Personal Identity 26:39 Power Sessions for Mujeres 30:30 The Book: Calladita No More 31:09 Sharing Stories and Wisdom 32:00 Cultural Identity and Refranes 32:41 The Book's Structure and Purpose 35:35 Navigating Naysayers and Staying True 42:56 Hybrid Publishing Journey 48:09 Building a Supportive Team 50:46 Personal Reflections and Challenges 53:29 Final Thoughts and Recommendations About Hady Mendez:Hady Mendez is a NY-based bestselling author, Latina speaker, and ERG coach. She currently serves as the Director of Programs for Lean In Latinas. She is also the founder and CEO of Boldly Speaking LLC, a company that is transforming the professional experiences of under…

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