# The Talk Every Couple Needs to Have Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035/the-talk-every-couple-needs-to-have Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035/the-talk-every-couple-needs-to-have.md Podcast: [Sex With Emily](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035) Published: 2026-03-17T10:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://s.gum.fm/s-655239bc611430d95e9a087f/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CFP7604287527.mp3?updated=1773752972 Audio file: https://s.gum.fm/s-655239bc611430d95e9a087f/pscrb.fm/rss/p/traffic.megaphone.fm/CFP7604287527.mp3?updated=1773752972 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sex-with-emily-1056035/episodes/the-talk-every-couple-needs-to-have Duration seconds: 2219 ## Resource If you've ever felt completely lost when it comes to dating, desire, or keeping the spark alive in a long-term relationship, you're not doing it wrong — you're just missing the conversation. Whether it's an office crush you can't read, a sexual awakening at 48 that's putting your 20-year relationship in crisis, or a partner whose needs feel totally out of sync with yours, the answer almost always comes back to the same thing: talking about it. In this episode, I'm taking live calls and listener questions on some of the messiest, most real situations in sex and relationships — and giving you the clarity to actually move forward. In this episode, you'll learn: • How to stop overthinking and finally make a move — whether it's an office crush, a first date, or reconnecting with someone from your past • What to do when your long-term partner's needs and yours no longer match up, including mismatched sex drives, resentment around morning sex, and the conversation most couples are too scared to have • How to talk to your kids about sex and bodies starting at age four — without shame, without awkwardness, and in a way that actually sticks More Dr. Emily: • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily’s favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply! • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you’ll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let’s get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | You… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sex-with-emily-1056035/episodes/the-talk-every-couple-needs-to-have/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-with-emily-1056035/the-talk-every-couple-needs-to-have.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.