# Episode 416 - Did You Marry the Right Person? The Only Two Things That Matter

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Podcast: [Sex for Saints](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485)
Published: 2026-04-10T10:00:00+00:00
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## Resource

Have you ever caught yourself wondering, "Did I marry the right person?" I want to show you why that question is actually leading you in the wrong direction and what matters so much more. In this episode, I break down the two things that truly determine whether a relationship will work, and what to do when you feel like you're the only one trying. We'll talk about how to shift the dynamic in your marriage, how to evaluate whether it's sustainable, and how to stay grounded in your own integrity no matter what your spouse chooses. If you've been feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure about your relationship, this conversation will give you a completely new way to look at it.

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