# Episode 415 - The ABC Loop: How to Stop Pressuring Your Spouse About Sex

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Podcast: [Sex for Saints](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-saints-714485)
Published: 2026-04-03T10:00:00+00:00
Episode link: http://amandalouder.com/podcast/415
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## Resource

If you've been trying everything to fix your sex life and nothing seems to be working, this episode might feel a little uncomfortable, but also like a breath of fresh air. I'm sharing why the harder you push for connection, the more distance you might actually be creating, and what's really going on underneath that dynamic. We'll talk about the subtle pressure that shows up in relationships (even with the best intentions) and why it can shut desire down completely. I'll walk you through a simple but powerful framework called the ABC Loop that helps you create change without resistance. If you're tired of feeling rejected or stuck, this episode will give you a completely different way to approach intimacy.

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