# 3 Reasons You Feel Awkward Instead of Sexy

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Podcast: [Sex For Couples with Heather Shannon](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sex-for-couples-with-heather-shannon-5845078)
Published: 2026-02-09T05:00:00+00:00
Episode link: https://heathershannon.co/podcast/
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Summary Certified Sex Therapist Heather Shannon explores the complexities of sexual awkwardness and the pressures that come with performance in intimate relationships. She discusses the importance of shifting from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset regarding sexuality, emphasizing the need to connect with one's body rather than living in one's head. Heather also delves into the protective parts and wounds that can hinder sexual expression and the judgment that often accompanies feelings of inadequacy. The episode concludes with an announcement about the podcast's rebranding to 'Sex for Couples', aimed at helping individuals in committed relationships navigate their sexual lives with confidence and joy. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Awkwardness in Sexuality 02:38 The Pressure of Performance in Sex 05:17 Mindset Matters: Fixed vs. Growth 07:55 Living in Your Head vs. Your Body 10:55 The Impact of Past Experiences 19:06 Judgment and Authenticity in Sexuality 20:50 Podcast Transition: New Name and Focus Curious about working with Heather or someone from her team? Book A Free Consultation Keywords sexuality, sexual energy, performance anxiety, self-acceptance, growth mindset, intimacy, relationships, sexual confidence, body awareness, emotional healing This podcast uses the following third-party services for analysis: Podtrac - https://analytics.podtrac.com/privacy-policy-gdrp

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