# Why anxiety can be good for us: Helping your child handle fear, uncertainty, and discomfort with Dr. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/securely-attached-4474030/why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/securely-attached-4474030/why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary.md Podcast: [Securely Attached](https://stenobird.com/podcast/securely-attached-4474030) Published: 2026-06-16T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://drsarahbren.com/420-why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/clean/secure/securelyattached/420_TracyDennisTiwary.mp3?dest-id=2868554 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/securely-attached-4474030/episodes/why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary Duration seconds: 3115 ## Resource Dr. Tracy Dennis-Tiwary, clinical psychologist, researcher, and author of Future Tense: Why Anxiety Is Good for You (Even Though It Feels Bad) , joins me to talk about why anxiety is one of the most misunderstood emotions in parenting. Together we explore: The surprising difference between anxiety that helps us grow and anxiety that gets in the way. Why anxiety may be helping your child (and you!) more than you realize. How to tell when anxiety is healthy and when it's becoming a problem. Why some of the most common responses to childhood anxiety can backfire. The surprising connection between anxiety, hope, and resilience. How parents can become a source of calm without dismissing or fixing their child's feelings. The simple shift that can help you stop seeing anxiety as the enemy. Dr. Dennis-Tiwary's three-step framework for responding to anxiety in yourself and your child. This conversation offers a powerful reframe for parents who want to support their children through anxiety without reinforcing fear or avoidance. It is about learning to see anxiety not as an enemy, but as a normal part of being human, and helping our children develop the confidence to face uncertainty, navigate discomfort, and trust their ability to handle life's challenges. LEARN MORE ABOUT MY GUEST: πŸ”— https://www.tracydennistiwary.com/ πŸ“š Future Tense: Why Anxiety Is Good for You (Even Though It Feels Bad) – A Psychologist's Paradigm Shift for Understanding and Hope πŸ“± @dr.tracyphd LEARN MORE ABOUT ME: πŸ”— Dr. Sarah Bren πŸ”— Check out my group practice, Upshur Bren Psychology Group, offering therapy and coaching for individuals, children, parents, and families πŸ“±IG: @drsarahbren ADDITIONAL REFERENCES AND RESOURCES: πŸ‘‰ Looking for support for a child struggling with anxiety or OCD? If your child is stru… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/securely-attached-4474030/episodes/why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary/transcription-requests` β€” Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/securely-attached-4474030/why-anxiety-can-be-good-for-us-helping-your-child-handle-fear-uncertainty-and-discomfort-with-dr-tracy-dennis-tiwary.md` β€” Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.