# Spanking Is Not a Love Language: Parenting in a Post-Dobson World + Marissa Franks Burt Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/saved-by-the-city-3629845/spanking-is-not-a-love-language-parenting-in-a-post-dobson-world-marissa-franks-burt Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/saved-by-the-city-3629845/spanking-is-not-a-love-language-parenting-in-a-post-dobson-world-marissa-franks-burt.md Podcast: [Saved by the City](https://stenobird.com/podcast/saved-by-the-city-3629845) Published: 2025-10-02T11:30:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/op3.dev/e/traffic.megaphone.fm/CCELI3149348330.mp3?updated=1759371917 Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/op3.dev/e/traffic.megaphone.fm/CCELI3149348330.mp3?updated=1759371917 Processing state: processed JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/saved-by-the-city-3629845/episodes/spanking-is-not-a-love-language-parenting-in-a-post-dobson-world-marissa-franks-burt Duration seconds: 3217 ## Resource If every generation of parents has their anxieties, the post-evangelical Millennial parent is perhaps most angsty about how to raise their kids as Christians — without all the baggage. Many parents our age — especially those who grew up evangelical — were raised in a time when Christian parenting books were ubiquitous and none more so than James Dobson's. Dobson, who died this summer, was the founder of Focus on the Family and the impact of his teachings on parenting — from discipline, to parental authority, to obedience, gender and sexuality — is hard to understate. On this episode, Katelyn and Roxy examine Dobson's legacy and the broader Christian parenting empire he helped build. We're joined by author Marissa Franks Burt to discuss what made these teachings so appealing to anxious Christian parents and why so many adult children are now processing the harm. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/saved-by-the-city-3629845/episodes/spanking-is-not-a-love-language-parenting-in-a-post-dobson-world-marissa-franks-burt/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/saved-by-the-city-3629845/spanking-is-not-a-love-language-parenting-in-a-post-dobson-world-marissa-franks-burt.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.