# Sari Swears Podcast: The One Conversation You Must Have with Jurors to Get Big Damages at Trial Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial.md Podcast: [Sari Swears](https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970) Published: 2026-05-01T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://saridlm.libsyn.com/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial Audio file: https://traffic.libsyn.com/secure/saridlm/S8E32-Audio.mp3?dest-id=656412 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sari-swears-522970/episodes/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial Duration seconds: 1735 ## Resource You might be asking the wrong questions. Not bad ones. Just ones that never get past small talk. And if that's happening in your voir dire… you're missing the moment where jurors actually connect. Because connection doesn't come from: "Where are you from?" "What do you do?" "Have you ever…?" It comes from something deeper. From getting jurors to talk about what they value and actually staying there long enough for it to mean something. Most attorneys don't do this. Not because they don't care… but because they've never been shown how. And that gap? It shows up later in your damages. Coach K and I break all of this down in this week's podcast: What a resonant conversation actually is Why it changes the way jurors see your case And how to start shifting your questions (without it feeling forced or awkward) If your jury feels a little disconnected… this is likely why. Love, Sari Download FREE Worksheet Quote: "What we're really wanting from our jurors is to invest in the process. And the best time to do that is in voir dire — when they can talk about themselves and what they value… because at its core, what our plaintiff attorneys are fighting for are human values, things that we all care about. And that's what was taken in every single case." Sari de la Motte Can't get enough of me? Connect with me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saridelamotte/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SariSwears Watch on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@SariDLM Free FB Group for Plaintiff & Criminal Defense Attorneys https://www.facebook.com/groups/fromhostagetohero/ ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/sari-swears-522970/episodes/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/sari-swears-522970/sari-swears-podcast-the-one-conversation-you-must-have-with-jurors-to-get-big-damages-at-trial.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.