# Bamboozled by My Own Anxiety: The Tenderness of Stepping into a New Identity

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Podcast: [REWILD + FREE](https://stenobird.com/podcast/rewild-free-6279816)
Published: 2025-10-23T20:32:00+00:00
Episode link: https://rewildandfree.captivate.fm/episode/amboozled-by-my-own-anxiety-unpacking-the-tenderness-of-stepping-into-a-new-identity
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## Resource

In this little riff, I attempt to unpack what it really means to “step into a new identity”... beyond the pinterest quotes and pop spiritual manifestation fluff. From the bamboozlement of future tripping, realizing how much mental energy goes into trying to get it right or plan for the future, to the tenderness of trusting yourself when the path is unknown — we’re pulling on threads of self-trust, perfectionism, and the nervous system’s craving for safety in this one! Expect musings on: Why “I’m working on it” language keeps you STUCK in limbo land The MYTH of needing clarity before taking action What straddling two identities actually feels like The quiet courage of trusting the breadcrumbs that energize and inspire If you’re navigating your own identity shift (in motherhood, business, or life - hello late identified neurodivergence LOL) , let's connect!! As always, I'd love to hear what stirs or lands for you in this conversation. Send me an unscripted voice note on IG ( @nicolepasveer ) and let me know! 

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