# Why Your Confrontation Is Pushing Your Spouse Away Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102/why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102/why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away.md Podcast: [Relationship Radio: Marriage, Sex, Limerence & Avoiding Divorce](https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102) Published: 2026-02-03T06:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1725542/episodes/18615181-why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away.mp3 Audio file: https://www.buzzsprout.com/1725542/episodes/18615181-why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102/episodes/why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away Duration seconds: 813 ## Resource Enjoy the episode? Send us a text! Why Confronting Your Spouse's Limerence Always Backfires (And What to Do Instead) If you’ve discovered your spouse is in an affair, your first instinct is likely to confront them, expose the truth, and demand they "wake up." But as many heartbroken spouses discover, this almost always pushes them further away. Why? In today’s video, Dr. Kimberly Beam Holmes and Dr. Joe Beam explain the psychological "brain takeover" known as Limerence. When a spouse is in t... ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102/episodes/why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-radio-marriage-sex-limerence-avoiding-divorce-1034102/why-your-confrontation-is-pushing-your-spouse-away.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.