# Healing Attachment - What Pursuers and Withdrawers Need To Work On In Individual Therapy Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-advice-524081/healing-attachment-what-pursuers-and-withdrawers-need-to-work-on-in-individual-therapy Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-advice-524081/healing-attachment-what-pursuers-and-withdrawers-need-to-work-on-in-individual-therapy.md Podcast: [Relationship Advice](https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-advice-524081) Published: 2026-07-15T21:24:00+00:00 Episode link: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/mgln.ai/e/211/traffic.megaphone.fm/IDP5149834360.mp3 Audio file: https://www.podtrac.com/pts/redirect.mp3/pdst.fm/e/mgln.ai/e/211/traffic.megaphone.fm/IDP5149834360.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/relationship-advice-524081/episodes/healing-attachment-what-pursuers-and-withdrawers-need-to-work-on-in-individual-therapy Duration seconds: 3285 ## Resource FREE 10 Day Couples Challenge⁠ ⁠Check out Relationship Academy!  Healing attachment wounds begins with understanding how early relationships shaped the ways we seek connection, respond to conflict, and protect ourselves from rejection. In this episode, we explore how insecure attachment patterns can show up in adult relationships—and why healing requires more than simply finding the “right” partner. You’ll learn how self-awareness, emotional safety, consistency, and new relational experiences can help you build a more secure way of connecting. In This Episode: • Understanding Attachment Wounds • Recognizing Protective Patterns • Creating Emotional Safety • Practicing Secure Connection • Healing Through Relationships • Building Lasting Trust Give Me Discounts! Kiwi Fodzyme - Get 30% off your first order! ⁠⁠Simple Practice⁠⁠ - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? ⁠⁠Spark My Relationship Course:⁠⁠ Get $100 off our online course. Visit⁠⁠ SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock⁠⁠ for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! Tanasi - Use code “relationship" for 25% off your first order. *If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a⁠ review in iTunes⁠? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/relationship-advice-524081/episodes/healing-attachment-what-pursuers-and-withdrawers-need-to-work-on-in-individual-therapy/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/relationship-advice-524081/healing-attachment-what-pursuers-and-withdrawers-need-to-work-on-in-individual-therapy.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.