# Episode 394: Capable Connections: Siblings with David and Sissy Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400/episode-394-capable-connections-siblings-with-david-and-sissy Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400/episode-394-capable-connections-siblings-with-david-and-sissy.md Podcast: [Raising Boys & Girls](https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400) Published: 2026-07-21T09:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/pfx.vpixl.com/7i87e/mgln.ai/e/424/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/TSF5315088051.mp3 Audio file: https://pdst.fm/e/pscrb.fm/rss/p/pfx.vpixl.com/7i87e/mgln.ai/e/424/claritaspod.com/measure/traffic.megaphone.fm/TSF5315088051.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/raising-boys-girls-730400/episodes/episode-394-capable-connections-siblings-with-david-and-sissy Duration seconds: 2500 ## Resource Sibling relationships can be some of the longest and most meaningful relationships in a person’s life, helping kids develop empathy, resilience, social skills, and healthy conflict resolution. Sissy and David encourage parents to see sibling comparison, fairness battles, and everyday arguments as opportunities to build lifelong skills rather than problems to eliminate. They share practical ways to strengthen sibling connection, including allowing kids time to work through disagreements, coaching rather than controlling conflict, practicing repair, creating shared experiences and responsibilities, protecting each child’s individuality, and looking beneath difficult behavior to understand what may really be going on. Resources mentioned Capable by David Thomas and Sissy Goff I Am Capable by David Thomas and Sissy Goff The VOMP conflict-resolution framework: Voice your hurt, Own your part, Walk a Mile in the other person’s shoes, and Make a Plan . . . . . .  Sign up to receive the⁠ bi-⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠monthly newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to keep up to date with where David and Sissy are speaking, where they are taco'ing, PLUS conversation starters for you and your family to share! Order our new book, Capable, here!! See our speaking dates, purchase books and check out our courses here.. . . . . .  If you would like to partner with Raising Boys and Girls as a podcast sponsor, fill out our⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Advertise With Us⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ form. QUINCE: Go to ⁠Quince.com/rbg⁠ for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. BOLL & BRANCH: Get 15% off plus free shipping on your first set of sheets at Bollandbranch.com/rbg⁠. Exclusions apply. ADVENTURE BIBLE: Get an Adventure Bible for your child and begin reading and exploring it together to build confidence and curiosity in God’… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/raising-boys-girls-730400/episodes/episode-394-capable-connections-siblings-with-david-and-sissy/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/raising-boys-girls-730400/episode-394-capable-connections-siblings-with-david-and-sissy.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.