# Episode 62: 💔The Moment She Lost Herself: How One Woman Saved Her Marriage by Reclaiming Her Identity Page: https://stenobird.com/podcast/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604/episode-62-the-moment-she-lost-herself-how-one-woman-saved-her-marriage-by-reclaiming-her-identity Text version: https://stenobird.com/podcast/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604/episode-62-the-moment-she-lost-herself-how-one-woman-saved-her-marriage-by-reclaiming-her-identity.md Podcast: [R and R: Resilience and Rebirth](https://stenobird.com/podcast/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604) Published: 2025-12-11T13:00:00+00:00 Episode link: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/zanaresilienceandrebirth/episodes/Episode-62-The-Moment-She-Lost-Herself-How-One-Woman-Saved-Her-Marriage-by-Reclaiming-Her-Identity-e3b8l6b Audio file: https://anchor.fm/s/f902e6a4/podcast/play/111481483/https%3A%2F%2Fd3ctxlq1ktw2nl.cloudfront.net%2Fstaging%2F2025-10-20%2F412872696-44100-2-dc4eba8893ec8.mp3 Processing state: not_requested JSON: https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604/episodes/episode-62-the-moment-she-lost-herself-how-one-woman-saved-her-marriage-by-reclaiming-her-identity Duration seconds: 3769 ## Resource In this transformative episode of R&R Resilience and Rebirth , I sit down with marriage mentor J ola , who shares one of the most vulnerable chapters of her life, the moment she realized she was losing herself inside her own marriage. After nearly a decade of loving, giving, supporting, and nurturing everyone around her, Jola found herself emotionally depleted, disconnected from her identity , and mutually considering divorce with her husband. What she shares in this conversation is raw, honest, and deeply relatable to anyone who has ever poured so much into their relationship that they forgot to pour into themselves. Jola opens up about: The quiet ways women lose themselves while trying to be everything for everyone The emotional weight of becoming the constant support system in a marriage The moment she recognized she was disappearing inside her relationship The inner work, tools, and spiritual shifts that helped her reclaim her voice and her worth How saving her marriage began with rediscovering who she was This episode is a powerful reminder that transformation in any relationship starts within. If you are married, on the verge of separation , feeling unfulfilled, or sensing you’ve drifted away from yourself, this conversation might be the breakthrough you’ve been waiting for. Jola also shares the book that became a turning point in her healing and rebuilding journey: The Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. Book Copy here: https://amzlink.to/az0fq41fzMfcW Tune in to experience a heartfelt, transparent, and courageous story that may reshape the way you view marriage, self-love, and emotional rebirth. 🎙️ Join the conversation, your voice matters. Share your story, reflect with me, and let’s grow together. 📲 Follow R&R: Resilience & Rebirth for raw stories, per… ## Actions - request_transcript: `POST https://stenobird.com/v1/public/podcasts/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604/episodes/episode-62-the-moment-she-lost-herself-how-one-woman-saved-her-marriage-by-reclaiming-her-identity/transcription-requests` — Idempotently request low-priority transcript generation for this episode. - read_markdown: `GET https://stenobird.com/podcast/r-and-r-resilience-and-rebirth-7092604/episode-62-the-moment-she-lost-herself-how-one-woman-saved-her-marriage-by-reclaiming-her-identity.md` — Read the agent-friendly Markdown representation of this episode resource. A page view does not enqueue transcription. Agents should invoke `request_transcript` explicitly when they need this episode processed. ## Transcript Full transcripts are not published on public pages unless there is a clear rights basis.